Saturday, 10 June 2017

Where Have I Been All My Life? Losing 151 Pounds and A #WomensWellness Seminar

Prague Roof Top Bar May 2017
I have been on a self imposed hiatus since my last post as I focused on both my career and health. For some time now, I have been trialing a new medicine, not new to those with Lupus, but new to me of hydroxychloroquine.  With gratitude, I am able to say that it has had a positive impact on reducing my symptoms; and, as a result, I have more energy.*    My last post was also when I had hit a plateau in my weightloss journey and I just had decided to challenge myself career wise and apply for a secondment as a senior leader in my school.  So, with all these balls in my hyper-extending hands, I needed to push the pause button!  I do firmly believe that this is okay. Making ourselves a priority at times when we feel overwhelmed is a gift that we alone are able to offer and accept. Many with chronic illness' often find it difficult to give ourselves this permission unconditionally and without guilt; and I vowed to myself, never again will I apologize in any manner for taking care of me.  I know that in doing so, I am more able to give of myself to others. Finally, at 51, I am asking myself, 'Where have I been all my life?'  Meaning, 'What took you so long to understand this most important formula for a rich, fulfilling life?'  Well, actually, I think deep down I got it in half truths, but now-watch out world.
As part of my focus over the last half year, I have been working on reaching my goal weight.  Again, as a voluptuous woman of 22 stone (308 pounds), I rarely let my weight affect my self-esteem.  I would speaking without authenticity if I said my weight NEVER affected me; but, in terms of my sense of feeling beautiful, it rarely did.  In fact, it was due to limits culturally  and practically (seat-belt extensions!) that I struggled.  Admittedly, I have always been into fashion ever since my babysitting jobs at 11 gave me cash to buy my own clothes-as well as a make-up, shoes and accessories mag pie!  And (I say this with possible retaliation), I never wanted to be labelled by my sense of style as a 'Secondary School Teacher'!   My weightloss has been for my health-mostly.  Diabetes runs in my family and I could not discount the research (one example) into the positive effects of losing just 5% of your body weight.  In fact, initially, my goal weight was 12 Stone or 168 pounds at the top end of a 'normal weight' range.  I am aiming for 10 Stone 8 pounds (148 pounds)-I like even numbers!  
 April, 2010, Hawaii. April, 2017, Vietnam
As always, I continue to Bio-hack for my weightloss.  I have found that  intermittent fasting is a key to my personal success, and I make sure I do this at least three days a week in combination with an eating plan.  After Slimming World, and in March, I moved over to Weight Watchers-at first it was because I was at a stand still with weight-but, now-I have to say, the Weight Watcher's App is AWESOME!  I can recommend it 100% if you are looking for a new plan to restart your own journey.  Since I began my weightloss journey with Weight Watchers, I have been on again/off again; but, they have clearly taken into account the benefits of technology and connection via social media.  I love it!  Definitely much more to blog about on how this App is supporting members of my family to achieve their own health goals.  
Since my last post, my husband and I have traveled a great deal with every school break already planned up until the summer of 2018.  TravellingVolup is my user name on TripAdvisor and I regularly review the places we have visited-another App, I have grown to appreciate.  Especially the ability to plan trips and save your things to do and restaurant options-it made our recent Prague trip that much better.  
This July my sister, Soraya Knight Doherty at Raqisa and I will be hosting our first annual Women's Wellness Event at the Asilomar in Monterey, California.  Soraya has developed a highly effective, results driven and fun Belly Barre Workout .  Her Raqisa Lifestyle brand is the sponsor of our event and I promise you will feel like a Phoenician Queen during the day and long after! 
I will facilitate a workshop in development and the working title is:
How to Live a Voluptuous Life No Matter Where You Are On Your Weightloss Journey.   I am very excited about this upcoming event!  I am the eldest of five siblings, one handsome brother and three stunning sisters.  My sister Sidonia is a  Perfectly Posh Consultant (her link) and she will be on hand with a table of samples and a raffle basket full of products.  Our overall hope is to honor our own Phoenician Queen, our mom.  
I suppose it is time to wrap up this post-just to finish by saying that my current weight is 155 pounds-or, 11 Stone 1 pound.  I'd like to have the final half stone-7 pounds off before my trip to California on the 21st of July-but, I won't beat myself up if I don't reach that goal. I have a lot of weekend events between now and then-I just know that I am here know in my life and it feels good.

Volup Vavoom.



* A disclaimer and reminder that I am not a doctor or health provider of any kind. I am not providing medical advice and the views are my own.   Please consult the appropriate professional when making your own health decisions.